Today I started my new job. By lunch time I had been asked by 3 people if I had kids. Honestly...I was so excited for a new job that I never even prepped myself for being asked these questions. That is one thing that is really nice about working at home for yourself, avoiding those questions. The first girl that asked I said, I'd like to have kids but we haven't been lucky enough yet. She told me to relax and it'd happen ::sigh:: Then the male CSR asked me (yeah weird) and I just plainly said no not yet. He said he and his wife decided to start trying and that he was 25 so it was about time they had a baby ::sigh:: The third girl asked me and I just said "Nope!" and changed the subject, LOL
Besides that the job went pretty good today. I had a migraine flare up when I first got there but luckily I had my new migraine meds with me!! Oh btw....I called my neurologist and asked for some rescue drugs since we're on a TTC break. Good thinking since they came in handy today. It was kinda boring working today since I had to just sit and watch everyone but I think I'll like this job :) I'm looking forward to getting the copy of the benefits, maybe tomorrow I'll get that. Regardless...they have a flexible spending plan I think we should take advantage of....those things come in handy!!
Last night Jim and I went to our first wedding of the season. It was for a coworker and he and the bride have a baby already together. I thought it'd be a less depressing function since I wouldn't have to worry that the new bride would have a baby before me....since she already had one before she was married. That theory is incorrect. True, she already has a baby but the baby was at the wedding consequently. This little girl was maybe 18 months old so she was walking around. During the 1st dance, Father Daughter, and Mother Son dances the little girl wandered onto the dance floor and was picked up and joined in on the dancing. ::Cue waterworks::
Honestly, I don't know if its month after month of high hormone doses but I'm a crier now. I never was an emotional person. Now? I started tearing up on the way to work this morning listening to some song on the radio I can't recall now but it had nothing to do with IF or babies just a sweet sad song. OMG, I'm losing it.
today was my 1st day of work too, what a coincidence! I was asked that infamous question twice today. Even sadder, one of the presenters for orientation made an analogy about saving babies from a river... don't ask... I tuned out as soon as I heard the word.
ReplyDeleteHope you had a great first day other than getting asked that and no questions today!!
DeleteI got asked asked twice my first day. It never fails. It is the Question everyone gets asked. Personally, I think it's something that shouldn't be asked, that it should be volunteered by the person, but that's our society. Sigh. That's pretty much how I felt too after being asked.
ReplyDeleteGlad your first day went well for the most part. It's always stressful starting a new job. Fx for good IF benefits!